Romancing the Home
I started writing a serious post, but it just wasn’t happening. I took a break to find something amusing on TV and settled on Zombie House Flippers. I have thoughts.
For starters, their math doesn’t “math” for me, and I’ll explain that in a minute. But it made me think about how our DIY economy has grown beyond all measure, courtesy of these types of programs, customer workshops at Home Depot/Lowe’s, and social media. I applaud the industriousness, talent, and personal ambition of these creators.
But ….
What if You Planned a Sabbatical?
Let me cut to the chase: I’m giving you permission to plan a sabbatical. Do I have your attention?
Traditionally, we have divided our lifespans into three unequal stages: growing up, working, and retiring. Of the three, a 30- or 40-year working career usually dwarfs the other two stages. In less than a generation, however, we have seen our retirement stage catching up to our working stage. For some of us, we may live (hopefully in good health and security) another 35+ years beyond age 65. That’s a retirement as long as our working careers.
Family is a Fixed Expense
I just returned from a drive to see Grandchild #1 (Ava) play soccer on her college club team two-and-a-half hours north. A wave. A smile. I stuffed some cash into her hand. She laughed and thanked us because she knows that’s what we do. Then, she headed to Texas Roadhouse with the team, and we headed home, two-and-a-half hours south. We may have paid for her dinner (with a popcorn booster purchase the week prior). I didn’t check what I was funding because she’s a grandchild.
If you want a Successful Financial Plan for Retirement, you need a Longevity Plan Too
As we build out our “successful second half” capabilities, I keep returning to the notion that we have such a long runway from our 50s to the end of life (like, another 50!) that saying we are planning for retirement feels wrong. Rather, I think we should replace the “R-word” with the term “post-work” because none of us is going to be in the state of retirement for 30 or 40 years. Instead, we’re going to be doing and being many different things during that time, all kinds of “non-retirement” things. As a result, much of the financial conversation stops being about investment portfolios and insurance and more about:
· Health and healthspan
· Caregiving and family obligations
· Geography and community
· Philanthropy and legacy
· Consulting, volunteering and encore entrepreneurship
· AND … optimized distribution and retirement income from portfolios and insurance
Retirement is Dead! Long Live Continuous Reinvention!
According to the American Heritage Dictionary, retirement is the “withdrawal from one's occupation or position, especially upon reaching a certain age.” Note that the definition uses the word “withdrawal” and not “end.” The definition of “withdrawal” uses the words “retreat” and “removal.” Again, not the word “end.” That should be instructive for us in the 21st Century.
Retirement is not an end. We do not expire. Ageism in society notwithstanding, we have choices:
· Fund retirement in our 50s to support ourselves in our 80s and 90s. Or don’t.
· Be curious and embrace lifelong learning to nourish our brains. Or don’t.
· Invest in our health so that our bodies will stand a chance of taking us the distance under our own steam. Or don’t.
Okay, okay… This is It (I Promise)
I’ve probably bored you to tears over the past few blogs, but I can’t help trying to be more complete. (This is in response to some finfluencer posts I found that only give the sexy part of any story.)
Somewhat tangential to my recent Taxes Matter posts, I want to offer two more tax ideas for diversification, but first a word on Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs).
Do I Need a Diversified Portfolio? And Other Risk/Reward Questions
“Wide diversification is only required when investors do not understand what they are doing.”
These are strong words from Warren Buffet, the CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, which arguably is its own diversified investment. Buffet has been known to say that concentration builds wealth and diversification protects wealth; that diversification is a hedge for when you are not knowledgeable.
That said, what should you do with your nest egg: build wealth or protect it?
Taxes Matter In Retirement (Part II)
Last week, I discussed why tax diversification matters in retirement. In it, I described how we tend not to think of tax treatment in distribution as we build our wealth. Instead, we place most of our wealth in accounts that are taxable as income (IRAs, 401(k)s) and in our homes (equity.)
But in retirement, we may want to finesse how much income we show year-over-year in order to take advantage of the tax code; because having assets with different tax treatments (capital gains, Roth, deferred) provides more choices, which lead to (potentially) paying less tax out of your savings.
Taxes Matter In Retirement (Part I)
It’s Tax Day! Welcome back to the surface, all my CPA friends. Well done on this year’s efforts. Get all the extensions filed and head out on your well-earned spring vacations! When you come back, let’s do coffee.
As for the rest of us, we tend to think of taxes as a necessary evil, which of course, they are. It’s hard to love tax information. Now, before I lay some on you (tax love, that is) in honor of this auspicious annual event, I’d like to address something truly important in grammatical constructs. And while my reach is not far (yet), I will be gratified if just one person learns this and uses it properly going forward:
The Max Match, The Max Contribution and the Max After Tax
Prospective clients would regularly tell me they are “maxing” their 401(k)s. Upon closer inspection, I’d discover that they were not maxing their 401(k)s. What were they doing? They were maxing their employer match. This happens often enough that I think it bears explaining. When financial planners say you should “max your contribution to your 401(k),” I don’t think it means what you think it means. (See The Princess Bride.)
How Can You Say No To Guaranteed(!) Lifetime Income?
There are some crazy and absolutely true metrics about the percentage of clients who, when offered guaranteed lifetime income by their financial advisors, refuse to take the advice. And it’s a high percentage. Since I pride myself on clear communication, I don’t think the challenge, for my own clients, was my failure to describe what it is, what it isn’t, why it’s a good thing, and what are any potential gotchas. I think it’s fear.
Saving For a Fabulous 4th Quarter Harvest
I’m going to take a cue from Avivah Wittenberg-Cox and refer to our lives in quarters. She describes our 3rd quarter as one of becoming and our 4th quarter as one of harvesting. Her goal is to enable us to understand that we are likely going to live to 100, and we need to be conscious that the shape we’re in when we get there is up to us.
Losing The Conventional Wisdom, Part II
I recently read a post by a young finfluencer about something called the “family opportunity mortgage.” No doubt searching for fresh content, she rightfully made the point that it’s possible to use this tool to help your retired parents own a home. The challenge, however, is that the Family Opportunity Mortgage Program has been discontinued, so you can’t go to a lender and ask for one.
Losing The Conventional Wisdom Part 1:
Among the more pernicious myths of the 20th century is the notion that it’s good to defer taxes because, in retirement, we’ll all be in a lower tax bracket. This is treated as gospel by CPAs and mere mortals alike. We believe that, when the piper demands his due, we’ll be enjoying our financial freedom—retirement—at a discount.
We Are Informed By Our Parents ...
I confess that I remained haunted by Hurricane Jackie’s (mom’s) retirement. Dad was seven years her senior, and when they retired to Florida, she was 63, my current age. For three decades, she spent her days in the Sunshine State walking, playing golf, aerobicizing and socializing.
Technically, This Is An OBA
A million years ago, when the earth’s crust was cooling and when college degrees were still etched in stone (just kidding, it wasn’t quite that long ago), I ditched my plans for law school to pursue a different post-graduate path and a career in the nascent high-tech computer industry. Before long, I realized I liked people better than electrons, and that led me to a position as a technical sales engineer, enabling me to call on prospects, provide technical demonstrations, and implement successful hardware/software business solutions.